Forgiveness

For some, forgiveness may be the hardest thing to give or probably the least celebrated thing to receive.

The standard definition of forgive or forgiveness according to Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy states:

The term ‘forgive’ derives from ‘give’ or to ‘grant’, as in ‘to give up,’ or ‘cease to harbor(resentment, wrath).’ More specifically, ‘forgive’ refers to the act of giving up a feeling, such as resentment, or a claim to requital or compensation. And the term ‘forgiveness’ is defined as the action of forgiving, pardoning of a fault, remission of a debt, and similar responses to injury, wrongdoing, or obligation.

In lighter terms, , forgiveness is a decision to let go of resentment and thoughts of revenge. The act that hurt or offended you may always remain a part of your life, but forgiveness can lessen its grip on you and help you focus on other, positive parts of your life. Forgiveness can even lead to feelings of understanding, empathy and compassion for the one who hurt you.

Forgiveness doesn't mean that you deny the other person's responsibility for hurting you, and it doesn't minimize or justify the wrong. You can forgive the person without excusing the act. Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that helps you go on with life.  It is very much different fromreconciliation.

Here are some notes from today's Life Apps teaching on "Forgiveness" at church:

1. Forgiven people forgive
2. It's God's standard to forgive
3. Forgiveness can cure illnesses

You must agree with 1 & 2, but doubts may even arise with 3, so here's God's Word to support it:

(James 5:16) "Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective."

Even health specialists attribute forgiveness' healing benefits:

(http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/forgiveness/MH00131)

Letting go of grudges and bitterness makes way for compassion, kindness and peace.  Forgiveness can lead to:

• Healthier relationships
• Greater spiritual and psychological well-being
• Less stress and hostility
• Lower blood pressure
• Fewer symptoms of depression, anxiety and chronic pain
• Lower risk of alcohol and substance abuse

So here are some tips for a healthier you:

1. Don't be easily offended
2. You can avoid an unforgiving spirit by realizing how important forgiveness is to the Christian faith

Ptr.A also shared several quotes on forgiveness:

"Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future."

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." -Mahatma Gandhi

"He who cannot forgive breaks the bridge over which he himself must pass." -George Herbert

"Resentment is like a glass of poison that a man drinks; then he sits down and waits for his enemy to die." -Nelson Mandela

"You will know that forgiveness has begun when you recall those who hurt you and feel the power to wish them well." -Lewis B. Smedes

"Forgiveness is me giving up my right to hurt you for hurting me."

"Am I not destroying my enemies when I make friends of them?" -Abrahan Lincoln

"A happy marriage is the union of two forgivers." -Robert Quillen

"In the shadow of my hurt, forgiveness feels like a decision to reward my enemy. But in the shadow of the cross, forgiveness is merely a gift from one undeserving soul to another." -Andy Stanley 

It will really be easy for us to forgive and release someone or some people (Colossians 3:12-14) if we ourselves realize that we have been greatly and eternally forgiven of our sins, wrongdoings and shortcomings by a Savior (Hebrews 8:11-13). Only when we do so would forgiving be 'real' to us. Anyways, it is 'our self' who benefits the greatest when we forgive. And wouldn't you want to receive forgiveness as well?

Psalm 103:2-4 (NIV)

2 Praise the LORD, my soul, and forget not all his benefits— 

3 who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, 

4 who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion

Trusting God

I was awakened by loud and distressed voices talking yesterday, very early Sunday morning. My uncle was talking to my dad with news that our tricycle was stolen during the wee hours before daylight. Shortly after, everyone in the house soon awakened and rose to the sound of distress. I'd say we were all shocked with this kind of circumstance. That tricycle had been with us for more than 15 years already. Other than my dad (who's the operator), two of my uncles drive that tricycle to provide for their respective families. "What now, Lord?", I asked.

I hurriedly prepared for church to help me clear my mind and I was expectant that He might have an answer for me then. And praise be to Him that what He told Ptr.A to feed His sheep was just what we needed to hear! LifeApps14 was entitled "It's Only a Test".

(James 1:1-3) "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance."

First human reaction to distress: shock, followed by panic, then sadness, then worry. Being "joyful" isn't always in the equation, and so God's word is really challenging us all to be willing to look at trials in a different perspective, to put our faith in the finished works of Jesus, and still believe and trust God even in the absence of blessings.

(James 1:4) "Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything."

After church (and thank God for JOF3!) today, my sisters and I went back home much more encouraged, uplifted, assured and blessed! We were able to share the teachings to our parents. We may not know the answers to the "how's", but our Lord will surely provide us with the wisdom, strength and provisions.

Just as how the Malayang Pilipino song "Kailanman" goes:

♫ Kailanman, O Diyos, Ikaw ay tapat, hindi nagbabago

Kailanman, O Diyos, Pag-ibig Mo'y wagas, Ito'y walang hanggan

Kailanman, O Diyos, Biyaya Mo'y sapat, hindi nagkukulang

Kailanman, O Diyos, Wala nang papantay, pag-ibig Mo'y tunay ♪♫

!!!NEWSFLASH!!!

"I was lost, but now I'M FOUND!" -VATODA Tricycle #36

Praise the Lord! our tricycle had just been recovered last night--not one bolt or nut missing!--from Pasig and now is home sweet home Paranaque! our God is such a miracle-working God! ^_^

One of the VATODA drivers went to our home last night to tell our family that our tricycle was reportedly recovered in Pasay. They said that it was parked near a house in Pasig. The homeowner reported the suspicious-looking trike (ours was a back-to-back trike & their community's trikes weren't) to their Baranggay Hall, who in turn, reported it to Paranaque City Hall, who then reported it to Baranggay San Isidro, who then reported it to VATODA authorities, who then went to our home to tell the good news..(whew!) And that night, my dad together with my uncles, other brgy officials hurriedly went to Pasig to fetch our trike. It was all in one piece! The journey of that trike still remains a mystery. One thing's for sure, the Lord works in such mysterious & mind-boggling ways ^_^

Christian Music

Psalm 150
1 Praise the LORD.  Praise God in his sanctuary; 
   praise him in his mighty heavens. 
2 Praise him for his acts of power; 
   praise him for his surpassing greatness. 
3 Praise him with the sounding of the trumpet, 
   praise him with the harp and lyre, 
4 praise him with timbrel and dancing, 
   praise him with the strings and pipe, 
5 praise him with the clash of cymbals, 
   praise him with resounding cymbals.
 6 Let everything that has breath praise the LORD. Praise the LORD!

♪♫ ♪♫ ♪♫ ♪♫

Good Medicine

I went to see my cardiologist yesterday for a check-up & to get a medical certificate. While I was waiting outside the doctor's clinic, an elderly couple came in. The elderly woman walked alongside the elderly man who held a walking stick & so I figured he was blind while his medical attendant held him by the arm to assist him. They sat down together on the couch near me while the medical attendant stood close looking more like a bodyguard than an attendant. The couple were talking happily; he was cracking jokes; she was giggling & laughing. We can't help but hear their conversations because the elderly woman would always ask her husband to repeat what he just said coz she can't hear him very well. And what made everyone in the waiting area laugh was when she said:

"naku honey, bagay talaga tayo..bulag ka, bingi ako at may ksama pa tayong pipi (looking at their quiet medical attendant)."

("oh honey, we really are meant to be together..you're blind, I'm deaf, and he's mute.")

Shortly after, they were called in by the doctor. Though it was just a short encounter, it was such a sweet & refreshing moment. It was really nice to see such a wonderful relationship they have with each other & such cheerful countenance. The Lord bless their hearts!

(Proverbs 17:22) "A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones."

He Who Gives Me Strength

I haven't been feeling well since last Thursday..have had colds and have been coughing recently..the changing weather and climate may be the culprit but I think I'll throw in stress & lack of rest/sleep in the bag, too..I don't blame it all on the weather or on the devil (who's only here to steal my strength, productivity & joy)..I can also say I have my share of neglect & overwork..

But I thank God for His grace & promises..He is my Healer, my Strength, my Joy. And how glad am I to have been kept reminded of His Word:

(Philippians 4:12-13) "I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength."

I know how it is to be full of energy & live out every ounce of strength there is in me as if there's not going to be any tomorrow..I know how it is to have plenty or be full..& for those times, I am truly grateful..but to have experienced lack or sickness, I am humbled for I know I am nothing without Christ. For these humbling times, I know I am abundantly blessed because I have a great big God who assures me of His love, blessings, provisions, forgiveness & redemption.

God bless us all!

Thank YOU!

I’m aching all over. I had to drag myself out of bed to go to work today. But then I mustered the strength to exclaim, “Oh, Lord! Thank you for a good night’s sleep and hearty rest!”

Yesterday, I was with the 3^rd & 4^th year high school students to their outbound trip to Anilao, Batangas.  First, we had a gruelling—a very loooooooooooong (about 5km) and steeeep trail—trek at Mt. Gulugod-Baboy before refreshing ourselves at Pier Uno’s swimming pools & beach/shoreline.

The trek this year was the toughest I’ve ever had in my entire outbound history.  I tried my best but I was only able to reach the 2^nd trail stop and wasn’t able to reach the mountain peak.  The treat on the other hand was at Pier Uno where I enjoyed swimming.  The place was beautiful!

Although there had been some troubles and difficulties with our students along the way, all’s well throughout the day. It was a day to be celebrated for God was indeed good and His mercy and loving-kindness endure forever!


(1 Chronicles 16:34, AMP) "O give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; for His mercy and loving-kindness endure forever!"

This Remains

I bought my very first Bible as an early Christmas present for myself!

I’ve always had my Bibles but both (the 1^st one was KJV and the 2^nd one was NASB) were given to me by my Dada (my mom's sister), so this is (technically) the first time I bought myself a Bible (NIV).  It’s so nice 'coz it has 4 colorful interchangeable covers and I like them all! ^_^

I remember the cover of my NASB Bible which says:

(Isaiah 40:8)   "The grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of our God endures forever.”

This truth is such a comfort that God is a God of integrity and that we can take Him for His words..He even confirmed it twice in the New Testament...

(Matthew 24:35 & Luke 21:33, NIV)
“Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away.”

Oh, how wornderful You are, Lord!